The silence is deafening

The State of the Union address is over for another year and once again we are left to analyze and decipher every word of the president’s speech.  We are forced to listen to news analysts evaluate the number of ‘interruptions for applause’ there were during the speech.  And pundits will talk for days about who stood for which ovation and who managed a photo op with the leader of the free world.

What is interesting, however, is the sound that we don’t hear.

We don’t hear the voices of democratic politicians stepping up to offer an alternative agenda.  We hear “No. No. No.”  But what is absent is “Let’s do this.”  The party of opposition has nothing to offer. 

The National Democratic Party has become a shameless group of pandering whiners whose only concern is how to keep themselves in power.  Part of the proof is in the fact that only a small handful of moderate dems applauded when the president outlined legislation designed to aid American workers.  Democrats don’t support workers.  Workers pay taxes and they want their money back!  Dems support the unemployed and underemployed because these groups like government handouts.  They also support the overemployed – rich men like George Soros who bank in Switzerland but demand that the rest of us regular working joes pay for entitlements they think poor people should have.  

The face of the republican party has become that of the middle class suburban worker.  People like me, one generation off of the tobacco field.  Those of us who are first generation college grads and who know the power of upward mobility because we worked for it and had parents who sacrificed long hours of blood, sweat and tears to offer us a better life.  We are children of parents who thought that a government benefit was the last option, not the first.  Parents who believed that no job was too menial if it put food on the table and clothed their children.  We are the children who went to church and learned that just as we are responsible for our fellow men, he is also responsible for himself and has the ability and the obligation to become better through his own hard work.  That puritan work ethic that established this nation’s first lasting colony, runs deep in our hearts and souls and colors our ideologies. 

Tonight, the President of the United States of America, a republican by party, has offered his ideas about national and international issues.  And yet, the ultimate power behind enacting any legislation that reflects these ideas remains in the houses of Congress.  Will the democrats offer alternatives or will they stonewall?  From where I’m sitting, here in my DC hotel room, all I hear is the sound of silence.

Published in:  on January 31, 2006 at 10:58 pm Comments (1)

Let’s just put that horse right in front the cart…

An article in the Washington Post today is making the rounds among liberal pundits.  The article reports on a study that was done to uncover racial biases among voters based on political party.  It’s assertion (at least as it is being floated down the digital river) is that republicans in this country are measurably more racist than american democrats.  Huh?

I included some excerpts from the article below (in italics) and my response to them – because this was just too easy to rebutt.

That study found that supporters of President Bush and other conservatives had stronger self-admitted and implicit biases against blacks than liberals did. 

That wouldn’t be perchance, because we are the party opposed to racial profiling aka affirmative action, would it? Maybe it is because the Democratic party has used faces like Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson to move forth it’s agenda.  When most republicans think in terms of voting blocs, it is not because republicans are homogeneous but becasue the FEW select causes that the DNC rallies around are special interest causes – the party that republicans vote against has created the public persona of a multi-ethnic, feminist, peace at all costs, homosexual as its poster child.  I am sure that biases against homosexuals would run much stronger in republicans as well as biases against some other American minorities.  Not because replicans are any more hateful than their liberal counterparts, but because liberal, and to a degree, even moderate democrats, have accepted these groups as allies in the war against conservative America.  Of course, you are much more tolerant of the players on your own team.  I don’t say this to suggest that all blacks are democrats, all gays are liberals or even that all feminists are in that party.  I am saying that the DNC has done a very good job of creating an us vs. them mentality in its marketing of liberal ideologies and it has placed these demographic groups squarely in the crosshairs of the ad campaign.  They (the DNC) have put a black face on their party.

The analysis found that substantial majorities of Americans, liberals and conservatives, found it more difficult to associate black faces with positive concepts than white faces — evidence of implicit bias. But districts that registered higher levels of bias systematically produced more votes for Bush.

Another misleading and not at all causal relationship.  Keep in mind that most “red states” outside of the south have a very small population of African-Americans.  Biases are bound to be more common in communities where the only understanding you have of black folks is Chris Rock’s sitcom or reruns of “What’s Happening”.  Assuming a link between racism and republican voters in this case is misinformed at best and misleading at worst.  It ignores the true causal relationship which is exposure.  Certainly, there is another reason voters in Idaho may harbor some racist feelings that isn’t related to supporting President Bush!  There are whole counties, school districts that gave Bush virtually 100% of the vote who don’t even have a numerically mentionable black citizenry.  There is no way you can eliminate the lack of personal interaction with blacks as a major source of any bias they register.  These same cities, towns, counties and states may be more rural, also an indicator that they lean toward more conservative social and moral views linking them more appropriately with a party that holds pro-life tenets and opposes gay marriages.  They are more likely to own guns and to prefer sending their children to a public school where their children are allowed to repeat the pledge of allegiance.  These values have nothing to do with racism.

Vincent Hutchings, a political scientist at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor, said the results matched his own findings in a study he conducted ahead of the 2000 presidential election: Volunteers shown visual images of blacks in contexts that implied they were getting welfare benefits were far more receptive to Republican political ads decrying government waste than volunteers shown ads with the same message but without images of black people.

For starters,  any ad with images is exponentially more powerful than a ad without. this is why 30 second television commercials aren’t shown in text format.

Also this could very well because the images are easily correlated to the recognizable images on the nightly news.  By percentage, there are more African-Americans on the welfare rolls.  The congregation of this demographic in run down government houses populated by crack dealing gangsters and prostituing junkies is an exaggerated image played over in television and movies day after day after day.  Hollywood uses that image as a backdrop (you’d think African-Americans would be more offended!) for more crime shows than I can name and, that fact stated,  there is an undeniable emotional reaction to the loaded visual stimulation of black americans living a tax payer funded life. 

There are ideological reasons, as well, that republicans react with more feeling to such media depictions.  Unlike, the democrat’s philosophy (everyone is a victim) which embraces the caretaking mentality of condescending paternity, republicans espouse the view that each human, regardless of color or gender is responsible for his own life and choices.  They view self-reliance as an attainable ideal worth aspiring to and the “american dream” as merit based achievement instead of a government leveled playing field. 

This ill ill-conceived study, as all studies and experiments do, began with a hypothesis.  Somewhere in a university professor’s office or perhaps, between puffs on his pipe in his own living room, an academic came up with the idea that anti-black sentiment could be linked to the republican party.  As a lifetime conservative who, admittedly has some biases but amazingly few against black americans,  I’m wondering, who’s the real racist, that academic or me?

 

Published in:  on January 30, 2006 at 9:46 pm Comments (4)

Blogs under fire

Isn’t it interesting just how far some people will go to stifle the voices that speak from across the aisle?  A Canadian journalist took pen in hand and slammed right-wing bloggers this week, even going so far to accuse them of being responsible for last week’s election results.  His characterization of conservative Canadian bloggers is less than impressive and demonstrates an overwhelming bias.  An internet backlash to his ignorant rant is beginning to swell.  Apparently, liberals are sore losers on both side of the border.  When are they going to recognize that his does nothing to help their cause? 

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No wife left behind…

The boxes are neatly labelled and stacked up against the wall in our living room.  One more day and we’ll finally be leaving this little apartment in northern Virginia.  My husband’s temporary assignment at the Pentagon will be over and we will return to the home (at an undisclosed CONUS army post) that we have enjoyed for the past 3 and a half years. A few months more and we will begin life as a “civilian” family.

As I look back over the past few years, I can honestly say that the title of Army Wife is one I have grown to appreciate more and more.  Growing up in a military town, I heard all the sappy tributes to wives who kept the home fires burning and I couldn’t understand what would possess a woman to willingly enlist for such duty.  Though I knew them as teachers, church companions, and neighbors, I never really understood them and I swore never to join their ranks.  Funny how ironically things turned out. 

For the past decade, I’ve been supported by these women, befriended by them and at times carried by their friendship.  Many of them have been the hands of God in my life, reaching out and offering a lifeline when LTC soccermom was across the ocean, in the desert or dodging gunfire in “Sniper Alley”, Sarajevo.  You can never really understand the beauty of these women until they show up at your house, cry with you, help you with your dishes and send care packages to the man you love – a man they man not even know.  They pass on their wisdom, their own stories of struggles and separation and they stand unfailing beside you as you wonder how you’ll find the strength to manage a move alone, or help your children adjust to yet another strange town.  They hold your hand as you worry about how you will help your children remember their father when they can’t see him or hear him every day. 

I love these women.  These beautiful women whose strength and character is forged in the fire of adversity and who refuse to become bitter but instead look around them and offer a hand to whoever seems to be hurting or struggling.  I haven’t met an Army wife yet who doesn’t undervalue her service to her country, her husband, her children and her community.  Each and every one, I’ve known, truly believes that her experiences are nothing when compared to the trials of others. 

Thank you Tracee, LeeAnn, Jackie, Desrae, Cindy, Michelle, Jen, Marlis, Beth, Katie and too many more to mention. I love you.

And to my favorite Army wife of all, a special thanks.  Thanks Mom for holding me in your arms while I sobbed the first time he went to war.  And when I fell to pieces every time the orders changed and suddenly he wasn’t really coming home.  Thanks for coming to my aid every time I called, frantic and afraid.  Thanks for giving me your strength when I had none of my own left to carry me through.  For being a calm harbor and a safe supportive place to go when I didn’t think I could go on.  You are my hero.  (Proverbs 31:28)

Published in:  on January 29, 2006 at 9:33 pm Comments (2)

An A for effort

You’ve got to hand it to everyone’s favorite war critic, Cindy Sheehan, she doesn’t do anything half-heartedly.  That includes jumping off the proverbial deep end.  Now, she is entertaining a run for the Senate against Diane Feinstein (D) to demonstrate opposition to the current Senator’s continuing ’support’ of the war in Iraq.

Of course, Sheehan’s comments ruffled a few feathers in the Feinstein camp which quickly replied, “We don’t like George Bush, either, so there!”  (Okay, that is a paraphrase.) 

Sheehan, who assured the press that she had no illusions of actually winning, questioned the liberal Feinstein about her voting record (in support of funding our troops overseas).  Apparently, Sheehan’s loathing of the 43rd U.S. president has now been extended to the American troops, who she wants to see go unpaid, without victuals, and unarmed/unarmored.  Even her “Just bring ‘em home” mantra requires what Feinstein agreed to: money.

Thankfully, I’m not living in California, and faced with the difficult decision of casting my vote between these two (umm) uniquely qualified women, but then, I’m not exactly opposed to watching them duke it out either.  If Republicans were smart, they’d drum up support for Ms. Sheehan and try to divide the vote.  If Hollywood is any indicator, there are plenty of folks living on the Left Coast who would flock to her camp.  And Republicans have won in Califrnia before, so it’s not an impossibility.

It’s just me thinking out loud here but does anyone get the feeling that this misguided mother is undermining her own cause and laying her singleminded naivety bare for the world to laugh at, oops, I mean, see?

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Call me mother Sharpton?

There we were, sitting at lunch, barely enough room at the table to put the plates, silverware and glasses when it happened. (It’s hard to seat six in a restaurant booth.) I told my sons, all of whom were playing with little toys they had brought into IHOP to keep themselves occupied, to put their toys away so there would be more room to eat comfortably.  My older two boys complied but child three, Mr. Fiercely Independent who just turned four this month, got tremendously upset at the infringement on his personal freedom.  We gave in to avoid any unpleasantness (knowing from experience that he will soon outgrow the need to hold onto his toys 24/7) and he continued to cry.  Turns out, even after he got what he wanted, he was crying because he felt we had unfairly treated his brothers!  Now, let me be clear, my older boys were not feeling vicimized in the least.  They had no idea what the fuss was for. 

It hit me right then and there that unless we hold a serious intervention, my little boy may grow up to be a lawyer for the ACLU.  I was beside myself until I remembered that I was the same way as a child.  I remember screaming at my dad when I was little for punishing my brother when he broke the family rules.  Perhaps, my son will follow my example and grow out of this behavior as he comes to understand that sometimes we sacrifice our rights for the general welfare.  Hopefully, he will come to understand as he matures that he is simply not entitled to everything.

Unfortunately, I can only hope, because there are so many people in this country who haven’t outgrown this inclination.  There is a huge subculture in America made up of people who believe that they are simply entitled to everything.  They feel that they deserve cable t.v. or satellite, new cars, trend setting clothes, to own their own home, and a host of other things.  And unfortunately, there is another group out there determined the defend the “rights” of the entitlement demanding crowd.  They shout to them, “You are victims.  You deserve more ”  and then the clincher, “Follow me and I make sure that you get yours.”  These social terrorists are so busy decrying injustice and convincing others that they are victims that they they fail to see the real damage they are doing.

The real damage comes in the form of an undermined constitution.  Instead of guaranteeing life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, we are now supposed to offer life, liberty and hi-speed internet.  Equality of opportunity now means not just a hand up through school loans and job placement, it means taking the opportunities away from others because they aren’t the right ethnicity or gender.   It comes in the form of an overtaxed working class and a wealthy class that has to skirt the law, banking off shore to keep from paying nearly half of their income in taxes.  It comes in the form of a people devoid of gratitude for what they deem they deserve and a people resentful of being stripped of what they have worked hard to obtain.  It breeds divisiness and dissension and is fostering a new civil war akin to the communist revolution in which a gang of activists legislate a redistribution of wealth so as to pad their voting bloc.  It comes in the form of selfishness – people who would give out of good and noble motives feel raped as they see, reflected in their paychecks, that what they would have offered freely is taken by force.  It comes in a pandemic of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, and a nation of mentally drained and overwhelmed workers who feel the ever increasing weight of out of control government programs on their shoulders.

The movement of victimology (creating victims out of ordinary citizens) and it’s compatriot, the entitlementarian club, allow for judicial miscarriages such as the “twinkie defense” and foster the perfect breeding ground for hate of anyone who mas more.

As reasonable people, who realize the sense of purpose that comes from working hard and earning an honest wage, the dignity of laboring and the honor of knowing that you really deserve what you have, how long will we wait for this terrorizing faction to grow up?  How long will we foot the bill, like indulgent parents, for those who refuse to mature and accept responsibility for themselves?  At what point do we push those spoiled little birds out of the nest and make them fly?  And how long do we allow those coniving few, the victim builders, to scream fire in a smoke free theatre?

For now, I’m going to leave this problem in your capable hands, America, I have three children and a four year old victim’s rights advocate to put to bed.

Published in:  on January 28, 2006 at 10:03 pm Comments (4)

I feel so violated!

Today, I encountered what was quite possibly the nastiest exchange I have had in my adult life!  Some of you warned me it would happen but I truly didn’t see it coming.  It was with a stranger who commented on a blog.  

Imagine yourself standing in front of the Campbell’s soup section in the local grocery store and scanning for tomato soup when out of nowhere someone runs up and starts screaming at you, shouting expletives and cursing the wretched state of the meat department.  Wouldn’t you call the manager and, perhaps, the local mental health facility?

And yet this is is the style of too many people who post comments on weblogs. They jump into a conversation and use expletives, never really addressing the topic du jour, but being incendiary and obnoxious.  Didn’t their mothers teach them not to call names?

It is an interesting phenomenon.  For some reason the anonymity of the internet has driven all civility from our culture – our online culture anyway.  Why is that?  Here we are with unlimited time to think about and edit our posts.  Seconds, minutes, hours to evaluate the effect of the words we choose.  Best of all, if someone says something we don’t like, we can choose to walk away – something that in a physical confrontation might not be socially acceptable or even feasible. 

Here, with time and so many options at our disposal we could be our best selves.  Putting forth reasonable debate about complex issues and seeking the truth behind the difficult dilemmas that our society, our government and the world faces.

What a shame that even though our faces are to the screen all anyone gets to see is our backside.

Published in:  on January 27, 2006 at 9:56 pm Comments (10)

Where have all the anchors gone?

Another example of the sad truth about the American press:

http://www.palmbeachdailynews.com/news/content/news/brown0126.html

Aaron Brown, lamenting the lack of integrity in the news media,  acknowledges what we all ought to already know.  The media is not a public service.  It is a paid group of professionals whose livelihoods are based on keeping our attention.

That task has become increasingly difficult.  Americans change channels enough times during a half hour news program to make thumb pumping an aerobic exercise.

Apparently, to keep up with the fickle American viewer, news sources are forced to jazz up what they do report and present it according to the rules of  entertainment rather than the guidelines of journalistic integrity.

Now we have reporters interviewing other reporters as a substitute for any legitimate news.  We get two people with peripheal expertise (at best) debating the merits of public policy and candidates giving speeches designed specifically for soundbite-ability.  We get a Cliff’s Notes version of serious news and it’s always interjected with analysis (because, as you know, we are too stupid to analyze it ourselves).  This sound bite culture makes for misunderstanding and allows for spinning.  The political polarization in this country is a direct result of a 30 second commercial marketing style of the news. 

The evidence is in the fact that from blogs to newspaper articles, from water cooler chit chat to televised interviews, reporting invariable centers around the most trivial of details and the most irrelevant of side issues.  Consider how much time was dedicated to discussions about New Orleans Mayor Nagin’s “chocolate” city remark or the deluge of drama released when we discovered that Bill Bennett rolls the dice occassionally.  And of course, we’ve all just got to know what is on the presdient’s I-pod.  

The American press has become a free market nightmare.  Driven by profits and trying desperately to capture the biggest market, “anything that’s fit to print” has taken on a whole new meaning.

 

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Are you freakin’ kidding me?

Okay, maybe the “freakin’” was a bit much.  I usually try really hard to keep it clean. LOL.

Just surfing around and discovered that the sponsor of website JustHillary.com is none other than New York Post’s political editor.  Objectivity is out the window.  Kudos for at least announcing his bias.  Wow.  The site maintains that it is dedicated to news and info about the Queen Democratic bee and that it is critical as well as lauditory but I’m thinking that unless she gave birth to you, paid your taxes or pulled you from the flaming wreckage of a downed 747,  you have no reason to dedicate your online existence to her.  Can you say WEIRD?

Add another one to the Gimme-a-break file.

Published in:  on January 26, 2006 at 7:36 pm Comments (8)

What NARAL and NOW don’t want you to know…

For so long now, the radical pro-choice forces in America have described anyone pro-life as a right wing nutcase.  They want you to believe that anyone who opposes state sanctioned abortion (and the expenditure of our tax dollars for it) is a person who would kill doctors and blow up clinics.  This idea is completely false. 

True there is a mentally ill right fringe.  There is also a left fringe that may (or may not) benefit from electro-shock therapy.  Some on that end will kill humans to protect trees and chickens.  Either way killing to enforce your ideology is WRONG.

The simple truth of the matter is that most moral conservatives object to ELECTIVE abortions.  Our objection is not with rape victims, victims of incest, mothers whose lives are endangered by childbirth.  The problem we see is in condoning (and paying for) abortions for people who were just too lazy or stupid to purchase a condom. 

YOUR failure to plan does not constitute MY emergency. 

I understand that many pro-choice activists spout false concern for the unborn by proposing that it is better to abort an unwanted fetus (or blastocyst – if you catch it early enough) than to bring a child into the world who would be unwanted and probably uncared for.  Aside from the very viable option of adoption, there is the simple truth that any mother can tell you.  Many pregnancies that are unwanted at first, produce beautiful children that you can’t help but love from the minute their little legs kick inside your womb.  In fact, that maternal instinct that NARAL would deny the existence of, kicks in so often that by month nine and after hours of labor, many young women who planned to give up those “unwanted” children find themselves struggling to follow through with that decision.

Due to complications with my pregnancies, I was fortunate to become very well acquainted with a wonderful ultrasound tech in the military hospital where two of my sons were born.  She confided during one of my many visits that most of the women who came in for “dating” (to find out exact gestational age of the fetus) were young african american soldiers who wanted abortions.  She also told me that most came in regularly and that she had seen one patient 7 times.  (Now to give you an idea – the Army moves people roughly every 3 years so that’s 7 times in 3 years.)  They were simply put, using the abortion procedure as a form of tax sponsored birth control. (What’s really sad is that the military hospital prescribes condoms, the pill, almost any birth control – to include IUDs for FREE!)

THIS IS WHAT WE ARE OPPOSED TO!   Elective abortions. 

The truth is I believe free-will is one of the most undeniable of human rights.  I am fiercely pro-choice.  But I believe the choice is made BEFORE you have sex not AFTER.

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